Mollie is a homeschooling mom in my study. Technology opened up a whole new relationship between Mollie’s children and their grandfather. Their grandfather was a pastor with a disability, ataxia. Mollie explains,
He doesn’t walk well or speak well, but he’s losing different, many abilities and so I was trying to think of ways to connect with him better. He can’t talk on the phone anymore, he lives in Georgia… we see him like twice a year. And I just felt like… even when we’re together it’s hard to talk because he physically can’t speak well.
Mollie’s father discovered Kindles. He could still type and so he got very excited discovering the things he could do with Kindles and he made sure that everyone in the family had one. Mollie was looking for ways for her children to interact with their grandfather so she asked his assistance in planning their Bible class for that year. The rest is history…
He got really excited and he started saying oh he had ideas and he was going to use this curriculum and all that. So, he sends every week on Wednesday, he sends them their assignment for the week, and for my son they are doing a video course and there’s a workbook that goes with it, so you watch a DVD and he takes the notes that his grandfather made up for him.
Collaborating on this project opened other lines of communication for the family and their grandfather. Mollie gets a little emotional when she talks about this. She says,
I just haven’t been able to talk to him very much and now we’re emailing a lot more. And my daughter…so every time she gets her email…she’s better at this because she gets her work done faster, so she has more spare time. But uh she’ll get an email from him with the assignment, and then I got her to try to write back to him. So, she writes back, and she’ll write and tell him whatever she’s doing during the week, just to keep it going. So that’s been great. And I’ve just been emailing him more because I’m paying attention.
I love hearing this story because the older people in my life would love more communication with their young relatives and for this grandfather to have found it using technology is a hopeful sign of what technology might be used for.
